Women are expected to see the actions of Elliot Rodger as a “lone gunman” someone suffering from mental illness. Just as we’re supposed to view the other men who commit violence against women through domestic abuse, rape, or sexual harassment as “bad apples.” Not all men are like that. Maybe they too are crazy.
And this is acceptable to these men and much of society. Because they do not see women as fully human, (Rodger’s screed, praised in the MRA/PAU movement, proves he saw women as objects or animals, but not people) it is easy for them to prioritize their ideal sex lives over are actual lives.
So many men see women as nothing more than some type of toy or sex doll, to be used, destroyed, and disposed of based on their whims. And it isn’t that surprising considering this is how so much media portrays us. We’re trophies, tragic backstories, and catalysts of revenge, not independent characters with out own motivations. Not people.